Why Is A Stranger Joining My Visit with Mom/Dad?

Dear Worried Parent,

I know how hard it can be to talk to your child about introducing a Professional Monitor for Mom/Dad Visits and our team is here to support you every step of the way. Here's a guide to talking to your kid about why a professional monitored monitor is needed.

How come this is happening?

It's normal for your child to wonder why a new person is going to be there during visits with Mom/Dad. It's important to explain that this decision is motivated by love and the desire for their safety. Both you and your co-parent want what's best for your child, and the presence of a neutral supervisor can help ensure a secure and positive environment.

Who Is a Supervised Monitor?

A supervised monitor is a caring and trained adult whose primary role is to ensure that every visit goes smoothly. You can emphasize to your child that the monitor is there to help and keep everyone safe. Encourage your child to think of them as a supportive figure, someone who's there to make sure everyone has a great time together.

What Will It Be Like?

It's natural for your child to be curious about how having a supervised monitor will change their time with Mom/Dad. Reassure them that they can still chat, play games, and enjoy their time together, just like before. The monitor is there to ensure that everyone is respectful and to address any concerns or conflicts calmly and fairly.

Listening to Their Feelings

Let your child know that it's okay to feel confused or worried. Create an open and non-judgmental space for them to express their thoughts and emotions. Assure them that their feelings matter and that you're there to support and listen to them.

The Love Remains

Above all, reassure your child that both you and their other parent love them deeply. Explain that this change is meant to make their time together even more special and safe. Emphasize that the presence of a supervised monitor is a way to ensure that everyone has a positive and enjoyable experience.

Remember, change can be challenging, but it can also lead to positive outcomes. Be patient with your child as they adjust to this new arrangement. If you ever have questions or need guidance on how to navigate this transition, our team is here to assist you.